Tamar תמר
foremother of the house of David; of her Judah said "she is more righteous than I"
Twice widowed and denied Judah's promised third son, Tamar sat veiled by the road—and took in pledge her father-in-law's seal, cord and staff. Led out to die for harlotry, she did not name him: she sent the things with the words "by the man whose these are, I am with child—discern them". Judah discerned and said before all: "she is more righteous than I".
From this account the Talmud drew the rule it repeats constantly: better to be thrown into a furnace than to shame one's fellow in public—learned "from Tamar". Her son Peretz is the ancestor of Boaz, Jesse and David: the book of Ruth closes with "these are the generations of Peretz".
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Tanakh
- Genesis 38 — Judah and Tamar
Chazal: Mishnah, Talmud, midrash, Zohar
- Sotah 10b — «better the furnace» — learned from Tamar
Basis: stated in the Tanakh.